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This exercise is
adapted
from Dick Richards' Is Your Genius at Work?
(publication by Davies-Black in November, 2005). There are 32
exercises in the book to help you answer four questions: What is
your genius? Is your genius at work? What is your purpose? and
Is your genius on purpose? Each exercise has proven to be
helpful to some people, but no single exercise is helpful to
everyone (thus the need for 32 of them). This one is a sample.
Refute Your Disrepute
(Print
this page and complete the exercise.)
The
primary method for recognizing your genius
is discovering a name for
it. The negative labels that people have used to describe you—your
“disrepute”—often provide clues to the right name. Common examples of
negative labels are bossy, loud, shy, waffling, flighty, intense,
compulsive, stubborn, and so on. The most important negative labels to
explore are those that hurt you and have stayed with you. You remember
them because they wounded your spirit. In order to see the clues you
must ask yourself what you were trying to accomplish that was perceived
as annoying or inconvenient to the person who assigned the label to you.
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Step 1: List below the negative labels that others
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Step 2: For each of the negative labels in Step 1, describe
below what you were trying to accomplish that was perceived as
annoying or inconvenient to the person who assigned the label to
you?
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Step 3: Examine the list in Step 2. Look for a common
denominator: what “goes into” all of the items on the list. For example,
the items on Neil’s list all had one thing in common—in each instance he
was trying to explore a pathway and his exploration was not welcomed by
those around him, who viewed him as indecisive, waffling, and unable to
commit. He calls his genius Exploring Pathways.
Your
name for your genius should contain a gerund (ends in -ing), and a noun.
Examples are Making It Work, Straightening Up, Charting the Course, and
Discovering Connections. The name is always positive. If it doesn't feel
positive to you, it is not the right name.
Complete the sentence below by filling in the blank lines (use a gerund
in the first blank line). The common denominator among the items listed
in Step 2 is that I was...
_________________________ _________________________.
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